Our education generally teaches us to abstain from sex completely to avoid STIs. The only alternative we’re given is to wear a condom the correct way every time you have sex per the CDC. It’s like saying “Well, if you HAVE to have … [Read more...] about Safe Sex is Communicative Sex
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The Truth About Herpes Statistics
They gotta like you MORE than they don’t want herpes. That’s the big question. So, why exactly is that the opening statement for an article titled “The Truth About Herpes Statistics?” Well, let’s get into it. … [Read more...] about The Truth About Herpes Statistics
Three Things To Ask Yourself About Disclosing
“I was diagnosed with herpes and my doctor told me I didn’t HAVE to tell partners. I didn’t think that was right, but what do you think?” I’m not one to tell anyone what to do. I like to ask a few questions and speak to the … [Read more...] about Three Things To Ask Yourself About Disclosing
“Should I Date Someone With The Same Type Of Herpes As Me?”
A common question someone newly diagnosed with herpes may ask is whether or not they should only date people who have the same type of herpes that they have. While I’ve covered this on a podcast episode in detail on SPFPP 379: … [Read more...] about “Should I Date Someone With The Same Type Of Herpes As Me?”
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Holding Your Partner Accountable
Holding Them Accountable Q: I’m not sure if this is an issue-issue or a me-issue, which is why I’m reaching out to you. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a few years and I really love him. Part of why I love him is because he has … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Holding Your Partner Accountable
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: The “Waiting” Period
The “Waiting” Period Q: Hi Dr. Laurie. Recently my boyfriend of three years went to the doctor thinking he had a UTI. When he came home, he told me that she told him he had chlamydia. He says he hasn’t cheated on me ever, and … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: The “Waiting” Period
Dating After 50: Are Condoms Still Necessary?
Most singles over age 50 think they’re no longer at risk for sexually transmitted infections (STIs). In 2009, AARP asked older singles how committed they felt to condoms. Only one in five said they used them every time, 32% of the … [Read more...] about Dating After 50: Are Condoms Still Necessary?
Podcast: What You Need To Know About Getting Tested For STIs
In this episode of the podcast, Dr. Laurie discusses what you need to know about getting tested for STIs. You'll also hear answers to listener-submitted questions, and get Dr. Laurie's take on "Sex in the News." … [Read more...] about Podcast: What You Need To Know About Getting Tested For STIs
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Safer Sex Practices
Keeping It Clean Q: I am 32 years old and I am obsessed with anal sex with commercial sex workers. How can I avoid sexually transmitted diseases and maintain cleanliness? Is there a drug/vaccine for me to keep it safe to have … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Safer Sex Practices
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Getting The Right Tests
Getting Tested Q: I’m recently single and enjoying a…bit of a slutty phase, to be honest. I feel pretty good about it, and I’m taking the necessary precautions, but I still want to get tested regularly. I have a good family … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Getting The Right Tests
Good Sex—The Spectrum of Safety and Pleasure
On September 29, 2024, we hosted our first Something Positive for Positive People Safe Sex Expo in New York City. The intention of this expo was to implement an intervention program to address the gaps in STI prevention that … [Read more...] about Good Sex—The Spectrum of Safety and Pleasure
Who Gave Me Herpes?
This is for the person looking for an answer to this question. While on the surface what you may be seeking is just to understand how you got it and when you got it, there are several potential undercurrents of thoughts gathering … [Read more...] about Who Gave Me Herpes?